I love presents. I'm not going to lie or sugar coat it. I love them. I don't think I get enough. My presence is a present. I also love giving presents – but only after I have ruined it for the recipient. I am known as the “Ruiner of Christmas (or birthdays)” in my family.
While the best gifts in my life are immaterial - I will be totally cliché and say that my children are the best gifts in the world, I do love my material possessions. Aside from my kiddos, the best gift my husband has ever given me is probably my computer (and all of the accessories to go with it). I am hopelessly addicted to computing, and he encourages my efforts to become an even bigger nerd than he is. He's given me nice jewelry (aside from my wedding set (which was FREE), the bracelet he got me for a wedding present is my favorite gift), but his thought in purchasing electronic devices makes me smile way more than a ring ever could. Yeah, he's gotten presents wrong a few times (the “do-rag” he jokingly gave me last year was kind of pitiful), but he really does try pretty hard to make my presents a surprise.
My Mom has always done an awesome job with her purchases (though if you ask my brothers they will tell you a different story). I can't think of any gift that has been even remotely heinous. She one-ups herself every year. She buys me what I love (Raggedy Ann stuff, Vera Bradley items, vintage kitchen decor, jewelry), and I know that what she gives has been given the utmost thought. My Dad hasn't always been quite as good with the present-picking-outing and stuff (he used to buy a lot of sterling silver and green clothing – I'm allergic to sterling and I hate green). Over the last few years he's gotten much better – the iPod, double trotting stroller, and cool handmade items are awesome.
My MIL gets the award for the “worst” gifts – though they aren't usually for me (though the outhouse pictures were rather odd). They're for my kids. She gave Gabriel (who was 21 months old at the time) permanent tee-shirt “crayons”. The thought was nice – he could make a shirt for her or for one of us. But the gift was impractical. He wasn't even two! I barely trusted him with regular crayons let alone ones made with permanent dye. She's gotten better over the last few years, though. She's cut down on the useless gifts and gotten more age-appropriate thing – for all of us!

A small sampling of my recent favorite gifts - Pampered Chef pitcher (MIL got it RIGHT!!), Raggedy Ann and Vera Bradley (my Mom knows me so well!), iPod (honestly didn't think I would use it as much as I do - thanks, Pops!!), and my computer (and kiddos - thanks, Babe).
Why am I blabbing about my love (and sometimes loathing) of gifts? The folks at
The Parent Bloggers Network have teamed up with the folks at
GetInHerHead.com (a free service for couples who want to get the gift-giving in any situation right) for this week's Blog Blast. With Mother's Day (Jon, are you reading this? MD is May 11th) rapidly approaching
[Christmas and my birthday are in the not-too-distant future] the GetInHerHead site is one worth visiting. Ladies - sign up (for FREE) on the site and enter all of your likes. Gents - check it out and surprise her with a gift she'll love. I bet she'll return the love to you wink, wink!!